Back to Basic

Today, I accidentally left my mobile phone back at home. Lost connection to the world (my world) for a while. Guess, I would totally freak out if I were still single. Why? Not being able to SMS or even call my significant other is a big NO NO NO! But things have changed now. I know that he would be doing just fine. Getting hitched has placed me in a peaceful state of mind. I know that towards the end of the day, I would either greet him at the front door or he would do that to me. Believe it or not...I even switched off my Hp while he was away to Italy and USA before. I am aware that no one would call me frequently as he does. What about my parents? Well, my mom loves to hear from me. She shares a lot of stories with me but nothing urgent. As long as I stay connected to the Internet, the absence of my Hp did not, does not and will not spoil my mood. What say you?  

This was me during the past 7 years

Battle of Sexes

       Both men and women are prone to do things, think, feel and even act differently. Their needs and expectations as well are a far cry from one another. John Gray in his book "Men are From Mars - Women are from Venus" claimed that such distinction signify that both male and female species derive from different planets in a sense that they are worlds apart when it comes to issues concerning personality, relationship and marriage. How far is this true?

          I read somewhere in an article that highlighted on the false hopes men and women bear in their minds when they get married. On one hand, when a man marries a woman, he expects her to stay the same. On the other hand, when a woman marries a man, she expects him to change. Amusing right?? It may seem simple as it sounds but wait till you apply it in real situations. A once slim young woman may not be able to keep her body figure at its best shape after deliver babies besides the fact that she's aging of course while a bad-boy personality of a man would not going to take its new form into a complete gentleman (even if there are any women who stay the same and men who change to be better, don't you think it is rather rare?). Do you get my point clearly?? If both species cannot accept this common sense, the battle of sexes will initially activate the time bomb. Uh-Oh..

           Thus, for the sake of healthy relationship, men and women have to go deeper in understanding each other. Trust me when I say that having such love chemistry doesn't help your relationship with someone lasts longer. I'd love to say that "Love with Effort resulted to everlasting relationship. Love without Effort is like adoring a puppet. Effort without Love prevails insecurity." Learn to accept your partner for who he/she is not for what he/she is. Needless to say, if you have found your Mr/ Ms Right, you would know what I mean exactly.

P/S: To those who are still single, i recommend you read John Gray's book on "Men are from Mars-Women are from Venus."

Liberty is.....

"Liberty is a state of mind, which will be reflected in the material world in terms of health, wealth and power. There is nothing said about freedom from troubles. In fact, you will have more and bigger ones than you do now. For the stature of a man is gauged by the size of the problem he can handle."

~Thomas D. Willhite~

Wasted

Frankly saying, I think or it would be definite to just say that I have lost hours and hours of my time on Facebook. It is totally sad isn't it? A loss..big loss.. Poor me and yeah poor to those who simply let their time wasted on this social network utility. Looking at my FB timeline, I had my account activated since 2008 and now it has been 4 years I have been exposing my private life to a large number of friends or people that I have never known in my entire life. Every ups and downs, pictures, feelings are all shared whether I realize it or not. How manipulative this utility is. I was once a shy person or rather introvert but the existence of such thing gets me evolving and changing into someone that the old me would have not recognized. Surprise surprise...

Nevertheless, there are things that I intentionally published for the sake of "Sharing is caring". Lucky that I still am able to control myself from updating my status with words of hatred, criticism, gossips and what nots...It is just not my style to put my heart on my mouth but there are a few negative remarks slipped even when I was under fully concious though. What can I say...my bad...

If I have nothing to say and share, I'd scroll the window and spend my time reading on friends' updates. When there are pictures, usually without thinking twice, I'd clicked on one picture after another until I'd viewed the whole collections in the album. Oh my goodness, I unconsciously have made myself become a stalker. I wanna ask you, is that a good thing?? Of course NOT!! You may say or give whatever reasons but it is just not right to dig stories about certain people (especially those who you consider as enemies) and later brag about them with close friends who may later spread the stories which later turned into gossips to lots of other friends. And they would probably begin the story by saying, " There is a friend of a friend of a friend of mine...bla ..bla...bla.." Totally not cool for a person like me...oh god, now i feel really bad about myself. Needless to say, I have gained nothing for behaving such way. Na-da...

Only one word tells it all: WASTED!!

Back On the BloG

Life has never been gentle to me these past couple of months. Too many ups and downs. Some were expected but some weren't. Shit happens. A part of me wanting to write it here in this blog and share with you but another part of me keep saying that "Let bygones be bygones". I stick with the latter. No need to share them here. Neeway, things happen for a reason, aren't they? Guess what matters the most is to stand up after the fall and keep moving forward....

Yet, there are too many things that I want to do at a time...Too many dreams to be fulfilled....Too many ...there are just too many....though I have to take one step at a time to do one single thing after another..  first and foremost, the thing that I want to change and must change is my personality and attitude!! I'm aiming for polishing my soft skills to the optimum. Yes, you heard me. I need to learn HOW to talk, listen and act the right way...Other things will follow suit.

 Let's hope for better future everyone!! Im back on blogging and this time around, i mean business. Whatever that means, cheers!!!

BBQ di Pantai Kemasik

Absence makes the heart grow fonder

Missing Someone badly...

When you actually love someone wholeheartedly, you'll face the above situation. No Doubt. Frankly saying, for the past 6 years, I was used to a long distance relationship (Subang/ Trg) - (Perak) with my ex-bf a.k.a Hubby. Though we are miles apart, I was more than satisfied to have received his SMS and calls just to kiss away the emptiness. However, after tying the knot, somehow I become such a goody-two-shoes. I act like a shadow to him. Everywhere he goes, i ll be right behind his heels or by his side. It seems unbearable to part from him except for of course when he is off to work. The absence is killing and torturing me softly inside. Such feeling is hardly controllable.

Now I understand how my mom feels when my siblings and I are living far from her. She might not say that she misses us badly. Yet, there are times when out of the blues,  my hp rang and i found that she was on the other line. I could sense that she feels lonely. Sometimes, I admit that I do feel guilty when it took me three days or more before ringing home. Though my dad is at home to accompany her, our absence (my siblings and I) is  deafening. Speaking of one in a million.

One thing for sure....Nothing could ever replace you. Please do  appreciate and give your undivided attention to your loved ones. You'll never know what you'll be missing once they are gone.

Remember, if the absence is not filled with your presence, the love they spare for you may slowly dim and die. As you grow older, don't be sorry if you have no one but yourself.

Overrated

I know you would say that it is just a date (rolling your eyes) ......well...I can't blame you...It is indeed true.

Yet, a date represents the day of your life for that particular year. Whatever things you do or experience during that day will be remembered later in a few years by recalling the date. So you see...this date has become special because it is easy to remember plus it is awesome!! 

It happens once in a lifetime uols!

Im still planning of what to do today with my Hubby.

Hopefully, only good things happen today.

If God is Willing. 

(InsyaAllah)

Blog Face-Lift

Phew...finally I'm done with the face-lift process....hope this new background helps my mind and your mind at ease. Enjoy reading my blog!!

Reminiscent

Oh My! Watching these two movies two days in a row made me missing being in Italy. Two weeks period was too short a time. Plus the last week I was in Italy was the first week of Ramadhan. The difficulty to get Halal food and the insufficient budgets forced me to think back home. Feeling guilty and baaaad....

Really wish to be given another opportunity to explore more parts of Italy in the future. Insyallah / God Willing.

Monalisa Smile

I am in a really Bad Shape these days.

Not physically but just a figure of speech.

I feel my life is running at a Slow Pace.

Though I get myself busy, it seems far from being productive.

Yet, I am Content.

I have just what I Need.

Thank You Allah.

Thank You Allah.